| This is the third phase of your worthwhile series | | | | 2. Meditation is deep relaxed thinking. In this state |
| on "mending fast from a broken emotional past." | | | | you are at peace with yourself and can think |
| The quickest and most effective way to move | | | | clearly about exactly what you want in your life. |
| from one stage to the next in life and love is | | | | When you meditate, set aside some personal |
| through a personal spiritual awakening or practical | | | | time to find a private space where you won't be |
| enlightenment, which you can incorporate and use | | | | disturbed by daily chaos. Get comfortable, either |
| in your everyday life. | | | | sitting or lying down, and enjoy the peaceful |
| There is nothing more refreshing than an internal | | | | calmness in your spirit. Think about the people, |
| spiritual renewal. In this state, old memories and | | | | places, and things that bring you joy, and the new |
| emotionally-unhealthy experiences will be tossed | | | | experiences you'd like to explore. Be at ease in |
| away and your total being shall be transformed. | | | | your body temple, and enjoy your pleasant |
| With this kind of personal revival you will definitely | | | | thoughts. |
| have an enjoyable survival in your life and love | | | | 3. Visualization is using your imagination to form a |
| relationship. You will no longer be held captive by | | | | picture of what you want to achieve. It can be |
| any emotional disturbances and circumstances | | | | described as "organized daydreaming." We create |
| which once had you drifting along in life, taking | | | | random images in our minds when we daydream, |
| whatever was dished out to you. This is so | | | | but in visualization, we tailor these images in our |
| powerful that you will become the writer, the | | | | specific desires. For example, if you want a new |
| director, and the producer of your own life's | | | | car, picture yourself sitting in it and driving it. If |
| script. You shall pick and choose (or refuse), | | | | you want a healthy relationship, picture yourself |
| whom you will allow (or block from entering) into | | | | being happily in love. I must warn you here that |
| your heart and into your personal environment. | | | | you cannot use this as a kind of mind control to |
| Isn't this amazing? Spiritual renewal is personal | | | | get a certain man to fall in love with you. It won't |
| power! Personal power allows us to choose | | | | work. All human beings have the gift of free will |
| without being confused. No longer will you have to | | | | (or free moral faculty) from God. So no one can |
| wait around for the telephone to ring, wondering, | | | | spiritually control another person's mind against |
| When is he going to call? Nor will you have to feel | | | | their will (nor should he or she want to). What will |
| stuck in a miserable, drawn-out, tug-of-war | | | | work, however, is if you visualize yourself in a |
| relationship, pondering, "Will he ever stop | | | | loving, fun, and peaceful relationship (and |
| cheating?" | | | | environment), with a terrific feeling of healthy love |
| You won't fall for any of the lies and false pledges | | | | flowing all through your entire being. |
| of players who make promises such as "Honey, | | | | 4. Affirmation is creating reality through the |
| you light up my life; I want to buy you the Sun, | | | | spoken word. You can use it to program new |
| the Moon, and the stars," when actually they can't | | | | behavior, relationships, friendships, and just about |
| afford to even buy you a light bulb. | | | | everything into your life. This technique is so |
| No; not anymore. You'll tell the unworthy lover | | | | powerful that ancient wisdom urges, "Be careful |
| boys, "The Lord is my light and my salvation. I | | | | what you ask for [affirm]; you might just get it |
| am a new creation, and I have no time to join | | | | [you will if you believe]." Here's a tip that will help |
| you in careless recreation. I am now ready for | | | | you affirm healthy love into your life quickly: Don't |
| my very own healthy love relationship with my | | | | affirm in the future tense, "I will be happy" or "I |
| exclusive soul mate-a real and decent man-and | | | | will be loved." Instead, boldly declare in the present |
| since you are not ready to make a sincere and | | | | tense, "I am now happy," and "I am now loved." |
| honest commitment, you're not the one, and I will | | | | Always affirm with deep conviction, absolute |
| no longer let you occupy time in my personal | | | | intensity, and feeling. Be careful not to just reel |
| space because your presence is blocking my | | | | your declarations off your tongue, or merely |
| blessings." | | | | recite them. Believe what you're stating with all |
| Whew! What a mouthful. To keep it simple: It's | | | | your heart. This is not just a hope, want, or wish, |
| time to drop the dead weight date, and get | | | | it is real. If you truly believe, you will certainly |
| yourself a heavyweight mate. You go girl! | | | | receive. |
| Let's get you spiritually recharged through a | | | | If you've completed all three phases of this |
| delightful four-fold process of Dedication, | | | | relationship series, you now have the "insider's |
| Meditation, Visualization, and Affirmation: | | | | secret" and formula for turning around your life |
| 1. Dedication is perpetual prayer, praise and | | | | and love relationship for the better. First, take the |
| worship. It's thanking God for everything (and | | | | time to restore and pamper the true essence of |
| even in advance); for your life, family, abundant | | | | who you are, and when you're ready, be sure to |
| blessings, joy, and your specially selected husband. | | | | embrace the sacred healthy love relationship you |
| And above all, for making you such a beautiful, | | | | deserve. Why settle for less when you deserve |
| brilliant, delightful, and dynamic treasure. | | | | the best? |